Cosy Homeliness

Question :: what does one do do if ones home ends up in such a mess that one does not know where to start with putting it right?

Answer :: ones goes about inviting a friend to come and visit, so prompting an essential remedial clean and tidy mission.

This particular invited friend cannot just be any old friend :: it has to be someone who's own house one knows to be the most beautiful, desirable, inspirational, clean and tidy abode. Naturally, it's the obvious solution. Invite someone to your house who's style you admire enormously and who's opinion means a great deal, and there you have it :: Instant Motivation. Doesn't everyone do this? No? Surely you do? (cummon, own up, pleease?)

Well now, it damn well worked, this plan of mine. Knowing myself so well, I was certain that my friend's imminent arrival on the Attic24 doorstep would give me the motivation I needed, and I was right. I have had many Complaints from the Management about the state of the house in recent weeks, but quite frankly, complaints from the management do NOT tend to motivate me, they just make me smolder quietly.
So yesterday saw me spend a considerable amount of the day and evening attending to the forgotten business of Keeping House. And it was erm....fun. Yes, it was, I surprised myself to be honest.

Now I don't want to bore you with the ins and outs of how sporadic my housework regime is, don't want this post to become a Housework post, but more a Homely one. In fact, once I got down to business, it didn't take an awful lot to put the place to rights.
And I am certainly enjoying the sense of peace and tranquility and Cosy Homeliness that has descended on  Attic24 today, it's been a pleasure to be here. Really.

I dug out my red gingham table runner that I made last year for Christmas. Tidied the table and the bookshelves which were both hiding under a mountain of paperwork. Tidied the Little People's art and craft corner which was beginning to invading the entire room. Tidied/chucked away magazines, letters, papers, brochures, toys, yarn, letters, tools, stationary, shells, leaflets etc etc etc.

So. Much. STUFF.

And I am so happy now that all is tidy(ish) and my little fairy lights are twinkling and the dusty bits have been dusted and the bitty bits have been hoovered. I even feather dustered some cobwebs, which was quite something. It has made me feel so happy! yaaaayyyyy!!!!

My friend Sarah is a delightful, funny, bubbly, creative soul and we do love a good natter about all things crafty and homey. We went to Knit and Natter together this morning, which was great fun. In fact, you can thank Sarah cos she's the one responsible for teaching me the joys of crochet. It was she who last summer, frogmarched me to the shop to buy a hook and a ball of yarn so that she could teach me to crochet, because she had just learnt herself and knew instinctively that I would love it. And how right was she? Love it? You bet.

You can tell what sort of a lovely friend she is, because the above gifts were dug out of her bag upon her arrival. A beautiful heart that she had made, and a wonderful bundle of biscotti biscuits tied with gingham ribbon. Gosh, I was close to tears. Yet again, for the umpteenth time in recent weeks, I was made so happy by the kindness and generosity of friends.

Thank you Sarah, today was such a pleasure. Hows about we make your visits regular, maybe say once once a month, you know, to keep my house in check? See you soon then, don't be gone too long.

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Comments

[Jennifer]

Cute, Cozy, Cozy, house. Love love love your fireplaces and especially the one in your kitchen. Wow. I've always dreamed of having an actual fireplace in my kitchen!xoxo Jen (Boise - Jen) :)

[Hen]

It's all looking lovely, Lucy, you must be very proud. And now you have the photos to look at when it starts to get messy again ('cos houses have a horrible habit of doing that, don't they?!) Pretty heart, I love that new Cath K red gingham fabric. It manages to be christmassy and yet not christmassy at the same time. Does that make sense?

Hen x

[m]

I'm guessing that Flylady wasn't for life ... no, I fell off the wagon too, couldn't cope with that barrage of e-mails ... pity, really, for our brief honeymoon period I thought I was sailing into a future of shiny sinks!

[Cynthia]

How lovely a friend to bring presents! Your house looks wonderful, but I bet it looks nice all the time and you're just being hard on yourself.

[simone]

I need a Sarah to visit me! I know what you mean though about people coming around as an incentive to tidy up the place. I am always happier when my home is tidy but it does tend to build up until I have to have a housework blitz! You have what I would call a friendly home Lucy. Cosy, warm and safe.

[elizabeth of course]

Haha! Around here, we call it the panic-clean.
And in your defense, it was Halloween season, cobwebs are a must.

[Pam]

If you ever (God forbid) decide to go minimalist, please can I have the red spotty jug? I realise you don't know me, but I'm not adverse to begging from strangers when it involves such gorgeous things.

And the Liberty buttons - couldn't you just eat them?
Found your blog through pillarboxred and Vanessa.

P x

[Hen]

Hi Luce,

Seriously impressed you were visited by AMH herself! Not sure who the other lady is, Betz White? Do tell!
Hen x

[cathleen]

I am busy printing off your hexagons and crochet bag patterns...and while doing so...I peeked into your sweet little home. Lucy...you have such a special talent at making EVERYTHING look so comfy and cozy...and pretty too. You are such a sweetheart! Lucky you, lucky Sarah.

[cathleen]

P.S. Does J. realize what a treasure he has?

[mandy]

your home looks very pretty and cosy, I love your little white tree on the table, and what a lovely friend to bring you a homemade heart and biscotti's ( my favourites ) yummy.

[A Thrifty Mrs]

Your house look very neat and tidy but in a homely way. I don't like very prim houses. Yours looks like the perfect place to while away hours chatting, knitting and reading.
Gorgeous.

[tilly rose]

I LOVE your blog,

Ive Tagged you

xx

[kim]

What a great home: the perfect balance of creative style and warmth! I believe you would be the friend with the "most beautiful, desirable, inspirational, clean and tidy abode" that inspired me to clean.

[Josie-Mary]

Your house looks lovely... I think I need to have a friend around because I hate house work.... I'd much rather knit & watch a DVD then clean on my day off, glad to hear this is normal!
Looks like you had a good trip to London, loving all the fabric. Did you make the crochet dec hanging off the coffee pot??? I love it, think I may have a play around tomorrow or if you'd like to be kind you could give me a few hints!!

[tilly rose]

Thanks Attic 24, nice to now that I am not the only mum who thinks she has seen too much daytime tV and is going around the bend..... I am actually pondering over your blog as we speak and looking at a lovely photo of a choc pastry and strawberrys....

xx

[cherrie]

Smoldering quietly ends up doing a lot of burning to a relationship. Much, much better to have your friend over - it could even save your marriage! ;-) Cherrie
Ps. Yes it does all look homely and nice.

[Katy]

yes! I do the same - I'm not the only one!!! The management here complain regularly about the state of our house and I just push at the bits of thread and try to poke them under the piano/cat bed/cat/small children's bums and whistle to myself pretending not to hear.
What you must NEVER do is invite me round, although you'd find that after I left there'd be much less stuff for you to dust (and my previously empty bag would be bulging at the seams with all the stuff I'd snaffled)

[Ali]

Oh yes, cleaning to order! A phenomenon I know very well indded (sadly)!

But your place is looking so bright and welcoming. Hooray!

[Paloma]

Isn't fascinating when your nest is all cleaned and tidied up?
I did the same today and the funny part is that I actually enjoyed it. I love the pictures of your house, it looks cozy.

[sarah]

Now then Lucy, what can I say...such kind words in your blog, I am very lucky to have your friendship! Your house is just as I imagined...very cosy and very you...it had a very special warmth and can see why you fell in love with it. I too had a wonderful day..meeting your fellow knit and knatters...seeing your favourite parts of town...it is nice to know you are settled in your new home. I will certainly be making my visits more often....we have lots to catch up on and important crafty ideas to discuss, have a great weekend, see you soon x

[Kathryn]

Dear Lucy,
You home looks so inviting, I imagine the sun would coming streaming through that large window, onto your table with the hyacinths in the cornish bowl. How lovely..
Kathryn
Kathryn in the Loft
Australia

[Leisa]

Your home looks just beautiful - I'm sure your glad you had a big tidy up! So many gorgeous bits and pieces.

[Frances]

Ah yes, all that cleaning and the catalyst that gets it going is so great. However, I just bet that your home looked just fine even before!

Cheers to having old and new friends come by to share time and interests ... much better than any dusting/polishing that might occur before.

I do thank you for getting me interested in getting my crochet hook into lots of stored up yarn. Might even finish a special Christmas present.

[Pipany]

Hello Lucy. This is the first time i have visited your blog and I love it! Off for a read through now xx